Well after sitting here and tinkering with it for a few i changed the "recieve buffer" from 20MB to 0.5MB and everything is going smoothly. I'm going to leave for a a bit and see what happens....
The FPS is dropping in both, i'm assuming the stream is h264. That's the feed setup in the cam, i recently changed it back from DTD to Re-encode to H264 and so far it hasn't gone back to what it was. I'm trying to remember what else i changed. I thought DTD would of helped because it wasnt...
I found a few different issue's when i first setup my system.
My Mistakes
-Was on wifi
-was recording to slow USB drive
-had to many camera's
I changed the above and still have some problems with my setup. My normal setup running smooth is 30fps, and about 500-600KB/sec (data from ip camera's)...