thanks for the reply with what you said i think i figured out what it was
the only change was i enabled dual wan connections on my router
so i believe it was bouncing with 2 out going ip's
i just disabled wan 2 to test and for 5 mins it looks ok will test more
ui3 seems to be failing on me for some reason brand new install win10 brand new install of bi 5 just updated to 5.02.4 which still has the same problem it seemed to work for the first week just fine
some times it works im also getting alerts not to load up on the left...when i rdp into the box...