I haven't seen a post where someone has specifically tested a setup exactly like yours (i3 8100) with a killawatt.
My BI PC is plugged into an APC UPS that shows it using around 50-55 watts. It uses an old processor (i7 from back in 2012) and BI is doing motion detection for twelve cameras (mostly 2MP, 15FPS, VBR).
I previously had a Dahua NVR (5216). With two HDDs, it ran at about 20 watts (IIRC, it's been a few years).
One of the main reasons that NVRs can run with a lower power draw is because the processors inside of them are pretty minimal when compared to a PC. This means most NVRs don't have the compute power to do their own motion detection, so they rely on the cameras to do it instead. Not that there's anything wrong with that, just make sure you're happy with the whatever motion detection capabilities that your cameras have, because there's usually no enhancements on that.
Also be aware that while most Dahua/Hikvision cameras have two versions of motion detection, the better motion detection (Dahua calls theirs IVS, Hik calls theirs Smart Event) only works if the brand of the NVR matches the brand of the camera. So if you're starting with four Dahua cameras, you're almost guaranteed to want a Dahua NVR so that you can use the better IVS motion detection built into those cameras. Not to say you can't add Hikvision cameras to a Dahua NVR down the road, but if you do, you won't be able to tap into the Hikvision camera's better motion detection. Same deal if you were starting with four Hik cameras... you'd want a Hik NVR, and if you added Dahua cameras to it down the road, you couldn't use the better Dahua motion detection.
BI gives you more capabilities for motion detection, IMO. You can use any combination of
Blue Iris' built-in motion detection, and/or a Dahua/Hik camera's basic motion detection, and/or a Dahua/Hik camera's advanced motion detection. For most of my cameras, I use BI's built-in motion detection because in many situations it's more configurable than even the advanced stuff built into my cameras. The exception to that has been with the new 5442 models and their SmartAI "human/vehicle" filters, which Dahua added to IVS (something that Blue Iris supports). Those work so well I have BI set to let the camera do the motion detection on those models.
My BI PC draws more power than my old NVR, but even if that extra 35w adds $5-$10 to my monthly electric bill, there's no way I'd ever switch back to a NVR. Between the better motion detection options, the ability to have it reach out to other devices (my feeble home automation system has a free Blue Iris plugin that lets it take actions <like automatically turning lights on/off> based on BI motion detection), and the fact that the folks in the house here actually use BI several times a day <they hated the Dahua NVR phone app so much they never used it>, it's worth the extra cost for us.
There might be an opportunity with newer builds of BI to lower overall processor usage (which may lower watts used). Newer builds give BI the option to monitor a second stream from the camera (set to a lower resolution) for the purpose of doing motion detection while still recording the primary stream (in its full resolution) to the HDD. I haven't tried that yet, but I'll try to remember to update this thread if it ends up lowering CPU usage/watt usage.