Hi
@Rick Simonton
1) As you know now, there really is not a perfect solution.
2) Consumer grade easier to setup cameras have numerous downsides .. one is typically they are cloud cameras.
3) IoT devices, will eventually get "hacked" / attached.
4) Either you need to take the time to learn to more to manage this better yourself, or hire someone, .. this is in effect what people do when they go Ring / Arlo / Nest - they are hiring someone to help manage the cameras.
5) Mac OS - you will have more limited options with this OS
6) Browser based controls - again, more limited options as some cameras no longer run a webservice out of box ( security and upgrade issues ).
Hikvision, check to see if they have config
tools that run on a MAC to allow you to configure the cameras.
Otherwise, consider using Windows OS and
Blue Iris or Hikvision's OEM software