My report will not be definitive. I discovered
Blue Iris long after I began using Vitamin D Video (Sighthound's original incarnation). Because I do community workshops on installation of home surveillance systems I felt I should be conversant with BI in case someone asked about it in a workshop. I bought it a year or two ago. I installed it and added cameras and noticed (mind you well over a year ago) that it was just as much a CPU hog as Sighthound and was a bit geeky to install/connect cameras to. Its chief attraction at the time was its price. SH is $60 for 2 cameras and $250 for unlimited cams. BI is $30 for one cam and $60 for more.
It could be that BI has changed its software in the recent past to be less of a CPU hog (and perhaps better in many ways...) or made it more intuitive but I can't speak to that.
What continues to sell me on SH (in spite of the price) is that an update in the past year has created an 80% reduction in CPU usage (yes, you read that correctly, it now uses 20% of the CPU power it used previously.) And it is completely intuitive. I just helped a retiree with no tech skills install SH to replace her now discontinued Logitech Alert system (on of the Logitech cams had died, so we replaced it with a 2 MP Dahua). I added her two cams to SH, showed her where to click to view motion activated videos and she was on her own. In the past year SH also adopted ONVIF compatibility which now makes identifying and installing cams a matter of a few clicks whereas before one needed to research the RTSP parameters for every individual camera.
So, not definitive, but a summary of what I like about SH. Also, their tech support has been quite wonderful. There is a small annual fee to maintain tech support and receive software updates, too.