I haven't used any of those to comment on the installation process, though it all depends how the devs packaged things up. One not mentioned in your list that I use, Bluecherry, is easy to install as it's all handled by a PPA on an Ubuntu machine. It's a one time thing to install, and as time progresses in the future it automatically updates itself as part of your regular system updates. Reason I bring this up is that's the typical behavior of PPAs, so if any of these provide a Linux installer for the VMS via PPA, then any updates they publish to the PPA will be obtained automatically the next time you run updates. If installer packages are provided in .deb format, then it behaves quite similarly to that of an .exe for Windows, as you obtain the installer and must run it to effectively upgrade that software (of course some have built-in update features, but I'm ignoring those as support for them varies from software to software).
I have not used exacqVision but I hear about it a lot. I seem to recall something about their licensing structure that can bite you if you don't opt in to semi consistent (annual?) costs. Might not be exacqVision but something tells me it was... I tried to get the download for exacqVision to confirm but it prompts me for a login, so I was never able to see if it routed me to PPA instructions or a downloadable .deb package.
Also, my understanding is DW Spectrum and Nx Witness are the same thing, but marketed under different names to different areas of the world. I emailed them a few months ago and they confirmed that. Digital Watchdog is evidently the name of it in North America while Nx Witness is the name everywhere else. The features list looks amazing, but for my 8 cameras I would have to spend 1,200 for licensing. I'll let you do the math.
Typically if you receive a package that is a compressed tarball with build scripts and make files inside, then yeah, it'll be more difficult as you'll have to compile the software to run. A lot of software in its young days start this way before maturing into the long-since-modern era of Linux, i.e. that of .deb packages, PPAs, etc., which are very much double-click-and-install.