The HDMI PLUG allows for GPU operations when there is no monitor. Some software disables the GPU when there is no monitor plugged in.
I currently believe that your performance problem and memory problem are caused by the number of files in your folders. My understand is that windows 10 will need to cache the contents of the folder directory. As it adds files it needs to read the folder directory to verify that the file is not there, that is a lot of traffic over a USB also it is a lot of memory, and a lot of CPU to search the directory.
I do not use alert jpg, so i do not known where to set the file naming.
Ok, well then the consensus seems to be to shuck the drive and make it an internal one. I'll do that tomorrow (or tonight if I have the opportunity).
I can only imagine shortening the record interval from 8 hours to 2 or 3 hours will only increase that number. The other thing that is happening is with each restart, the clips start over. So under ideal circumstances, I'll have three 8-hour clips (albeit, only the length of actual triggered record time). But now, with the frequent restarts, I'm seeing upwards of 6-10 clips for the day.