I know it's been over a year now, but did you ever make any progress on this? I'm just configuring my first system and I'm also finding that even though I record both streams, playback on Hik-Connect is always in HD (the HD/Basic button is disabled and set always to "HD") and won't play smoothly, skipping tons of frames. Playback on either the Main Stream or Sub Stream is fine on a LAN-connected device, but I believe that Hik-Connect goes through the Web even when I'm connected to my local LAN, so playing back in HD for a 4MP camera exceeds my upload bandwidth.
Is there any setting I may have missed either on the Hik-Connect app or on my NVR (7616NI-I2)?