I'm going to try to one-up you. No biggie if I don't succeed, it's just for fun. In the late 60s, I escaped from (...drum roll...) Chicago, and left the entire at-that-time family behind. I was an up-and-coming self sufficient young stud then and had no qualms over stepping out on my own. Now it's different. If I were to leave Oregon now it would be by myself again, leaving behind the wife, kids, and grandkids, and I lost the young stud status a while ago.
I don't envy the family left behind in Chicago a bit. They're mostly bitter and distrustful When I was the young adult I did a lot of business trips and arranging a stopover for family visits was fairly easy. Those days when you could get to the airport 10 minutes prior to departure, sprint to the gate, and jump through the plane's door just as they were closing it. Haven't been on a commercial flight now for close to 10 years, and not planning to start up again.
One things that ticks me off about Oregon that would fit better in the money thread, is its death tax. Anything over a million is taxed at 10% or more. That sounds like a lot, but the fact is that any nice middle class house near a metro area is pushing a million in market value, if not more. So for anybody with a nice middle class house, the state will take 10% of everything else. Not indexed for inflation, no stacking of the exemption for married couples. Assets taxed when you earned them, taxed again by inflation, then confiscated when you die.