Thanks David, yes I have the correct password and can indeed connect to the DVR without going through the VPN via iDMSS, the Web interface, SmartPSS, Tinycam or anything else I want to use. But once I connect via VPN the router is assigning the 192.168.254.X address to the VPN connected device and my internal network is on the 192.168.1.X range, thus, no connected device through the VPN can communicate with the devices on the 192.168.1.X range...
I did try opening the subnet mask to 255.255.0.0 which would in theory make the LAN network bigger and encompass the 192.168.254.X range, but the DHCP server of the router still doesnt recognize anything beyond 192.168.1.X and doesnt allow me to manually set the DHCP range, so that doesnt work ... iDMSS still times out trying to connect via OpenVPN
Thanks for your help, I'm going to pose the question to our Corp IT guy who may be able to figure it out.