Rogerj,
You say you;
- have access to live feed.
- you can't find the camera.
While standing the bathroom, look around while watching the live feed. Eventually, the feed will show you looking directly at the camera.
Simple. Shouldn't need explaining. That is fishy.
You say you have video, therefore,
you can identify the cam's "vantage point" , based on the image's perspective.
Simple. Shouldn't need explaining. This is also fishy.
You're not sharing info to help. (We don't need images including your "lady friend".)
Fishy.
You're argumentative. Despite being a newbie, you argue with more knowledgeable people here.
Fishy.
It doesn't add up at all. You need help, but not the technical type this forum offers.
SLC was succinct:
PICS or VIDEO or GTFO