Ok now so in the time it took to write the post above, and paste in the screen shots, I hit the Save button once more. I'll be damned if waiting on the NVR to come to it's senses didn't take care of the problem.
SO now that cam is being recorded to both BI and the NVR,
For me though, the only problem with that is my NVR is a 4108, with a Rage inducing 80 Mbps Wan port.....
I may be looking at a 320 Mbps 5216 just for the bandwidth....