So a warm, wet, spray just can't be forced through a mask with a sneeze or cough? I find that more than hard to believe.
Enough of this. I feel masks are more cosmetic than therapeutic, you don't. Never the twain shall meet.
OK, ok, if you don't believe it that's fine.
But for the record: warm, wet spray is trapped on the way out much better than fine, dry particles on the way "in." No doubt.
Funny story:
I was drinking some diet coke inside an airport while checking in (returning from my father's burial) in a situation where masks were of course required. I would lower my mask, take a swig, raise the mask. I was wearing a garden variety cloth mask. After one of my swigs, I had a sudden and unstoppable sneeze as I was working the touch screen. Ah-CHOO!... with the coke still half in my mouth. The mask trapped either all or nearly all of it from projecting in front of me. Some of it dribbled down my chin, neck, but it didn't create a zone of particlization in front of me. The computer screen for check-in didn't have droplets (that I could see, at least) all over it. The mask might not have been perfect but was a hell of a lot better than nothing, at keeping in the wet stuff. Fortunately I had a backup mask with me and I tossed the wet one, and used a wipe to clean the screen just in case so people touching it wouldn't get anything from it if too-small-to-see droplets were there. The mask traps most. Not ALL.
Also, for those interested in the 70/30% measurement thing. The right way to look at it experimentally is that you have to consider effectiveness per event, not simply "what portion of sick people wear masks," because what you can't measure is what portion of people wore masks and stayed healthy.
Imagine an event is being any one time you breathe in someone else's air, as sort of the quantized infection-potential event. So, for example, standing in line at grocery store, person nearby breathes out. You breathe in enough of this air to potentially harbor enough virions to mount an infection. If you are wearing a mask, some portion of those virions get through, others are blocked. But if the person breathing out, in that one event, is wearing a mask, the likelihood that enough virions attatched to wet droplets are gettting to you is dramatically reduced, because the mask traps most (not all, Jessie!) on the way out, and also changes the flow characteristics of those that do slip around the sides of the mask... they aren't projecting out. Now factor in that it's not one virion that causes an infection... there needs to be a critical mass threshold getting in over a certain amount of time. Both of you wearing masks drastically reduces the likelihood of this happening in this one "infection event." The "per event" likelihood of getting a viable dose of virions goes down by some orders of magnitude. And with it, the number of people getting sick.