The reason its hard is that we dont know all of your settings, if you are making setting changes on the NVR or directly on each of the cameras or both, etc..
How did they remote into your NVR?
SMD is pretty straighforward, lets focus on MD/SMD for now. IVS is a whole other class
Go to your NVR and login to it via a web browser and show us some screenshots. Dont crop them, we need to see the whole page
1- The camera registration page
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2- The Storage/Schedule page
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and the Record Mode page
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3- Under Alarm/Video Detection your MD settings for an example channel
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and your Region settings
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Once we very that stuff we can move on to logging into the individual cameras which is where ALL other settings should be made.