So on this diagnostic firmware which is meant to be identical, its not crashing anymore (me thinks its not identical when they claim it is)
However after 36 hours when trying to play back I was getting 1 FPS jump playback.... A reboot sorted that.... Im now trying again.
The company tech support I bought it off claims I was over loading the unit, with my 5 1080p streams, 20fps, 4096 bit rate, 60 I frame, and high quality image, so remote in, set image quality to low and everything to 5000 bit rate and said that will fix it, no quality issues.... No, none at all, number plates were no longer legible!!!!
I doubt I am over loading the unit... so now I've cranked them up to 2 @ 8000 bit rate, and 3 at 6000 bit rate, and reduced the i-frames to 20.... So far 6 hours so good.
If it lasts 34 hours, I'm going to put it back to public release, and see what happens.... technically it should be OK.... but I bet it crashes again